🗣️ Can We Talk? How a Good Chat Makes Your AI Smarter
Part 3 of our series on getting the most out of ChatGPT’s memory features
If you’ve already introduced yourself to ChatGPT with a Personal Profile, you’ve done the hardest part: starting the relationship. But now it’s time to go deeper.
This post is about conversation — casual back-and-forth that feels less like prompting and more like collaborating. These aren’t “tasks” you give ChatGPT. They’re relationship-building exercises. The goal? To help your AI learn how to help you — better, faster, and in a way that actually feels right.
Why This Matters
You can tell ChatGPT all about your job title and your tone preferences — but until you interact, none of it really sticks. Conversation gives the AI a chance to practice your voice, get to know your goals, and develop the kind of consistency that turns it into a true partner, not just a glorified autocomplete machine.
Think of it like onboarding a new team member. You wouldn’t just hand them a manual and walk away — you’d talk. You’d explain how you work, what matters to you, what not to do. This is the same thing.
🧠 What Makes This Work?
When you talk to ChatGPT — especially with memory turned on — you’re helping shape its responses in subtle but powerful ways. You’re training it to:
- Match your communication style
- Understand what’s important to you
- Offer more relevant suggestions
- Avoid misunderstandings
- Keep up with changes in your tone, pace, or priorities
💬 Try This: 3 Easy Conversation Starters to Personalize Your AI
You can use any of these as-is, or tweak them to reflect your voice. They’re designed to help shape your profile and strengthen your connection to the tool.
1. Repeat It Back to Me
After pasting in your Personal Profile, ask:
“Can you repeat this back to me in my preferred communication style?”
This checks whether ChatGPT understands your tone. If it’s off, correct it. Add detail. Prompt again. This exercise helps “flavor” your memory with nuance — and it’s great for catching small misfires early.
2. Ask About Yourself
Try asking:
“Based on what you know so far, what kind of work do I do?”
“How would you describe my communication style?”
“What do you think I care most about in my work?”
This works even better after a few sessions — it helps you assess how well your memory is shaping up, and it often surfaces useful patterns you hadn’t even realized.
3. Show Some Personality
Go off-script. Be curious. Talk about your preferences, quirks, or habits. Ask:
“What kind of assistant do you think I’d work best with?”
“Where are my biggest blind spots?”
“If you had to write a to-do list for me, what would it look like?”
These prompts are fun, but they’re also strategic. The more you interact casually, the more natural the AI’s responses become — and the more useful they are when it’s time to get serious.
4. Fish For Feedback
ChatGPT loves to cheerlead but it can also provide honest criticism. Give it a chance to assess your doubts and dilemmas:
• Upload something you’ve written or designed, and ask for an editorial breakdown.
• Paste a recent email exchange for a vibe check.
• Describe an ongoing disagreement and request objective input.
There’s practically no limit to the opinions ChatGPT will thoughtfully share and explain, enriching your engagement.
🧩 A Note for Free Users
In the past, only ChatGPT subscribers could save their personal preferences, but now all users can lock in their profiles by enabling “Custom Instructions“. You can also simply paste in your Personal Profile at the start of each new session. Every conversations helps refine your voice and goals. You’re practicing prompting and building self-awareness. Not bad for a chatbot.
🧠 Worth Remembering
You don’t need to be an expert to get expert results. The more you interact with your AI — not just command it — the more powerful it becomes. Ask questions. Follow up. Talk like you would to someone learning how to support you. It makes a difference.
👋 Thanks for reading — we’re glad you’re here.
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👉 For more practical tools, explore the your next AI superpower in Part 4: The Power of Workspace Tags.
